Monday, December 19, 2016



My grocery store decided to do a promotion where you went in last week and bought groceries...then they would give you a coupon that was only good for 4 days to get $11 off if you spent over $110...and of course those 4 days were Friday,Sat, Sun & Monday (ending today).  Sigh!  I absolutely HATE attempting to go grocery shopping on the weekend and I knew that today wasn't going to be much better because it would be busy.  pththth!

I also had some packages that needed to get packed and mailed.  First find boxes.  While in the basement I notice that it smells like gas.  great!  Husband was home today so I report the smell to him.  He takes his good sweet time to investigate (meanwhile we're all in danger of suffocation!) but eventually makes his way down and announces that I wasn't smelling gas, but instead the exhaust from the furnace.  I say, shouldn't our vent be venting the exhaust away?  to which he agrees.
He then noticed that the carbon monoxide detector is missing and gives me the interrogation about that...  I announce that it DIED!  I don't think that he believed me, but whatever!  Add buying a new CO detector to my list of errands.  Look up the price and after all the rest, head out.

First stop... the post office to mail the packages.  Genius that I am, I figure instead of parking in the front lot where everyone else is waiting to get in and is a pain to get out of because everyone is waiting to get in, I drive to the side lot...only to discover that this lot is FILLED with cars that have been left there!!!  What the actual hey?  Why are people leaving their cars in the post office parking lot???  sigh, so I drive back around to the front lot and grab a space.  I go in and see that there is barely ANYONE inside...they've all been sucked up into the black hole or something.  weird.  get to walk right up to an empty automated postal machine...after dodging confused older woman and get my packages mailed.  Now to leave...HAHAHA!  (side note: it doesn't matter where I park...every. single. time.  some great big vehicle will park next to me so I can't see to get back out!)  and of course this time is no exception.  I can't see, but do determine that the guy in the big white truck who was just sitting there when I was slipping my way back to my car has finally decided that now is the time to pull out.  wait wait wait  Finally he's gone and the 4 other cars who were waiting on him have passed...put my car in reverse and slowly back 2 inches when zip some tiny car comes speeding through... who speeds through a snow covered parking lot at the post office???  this genius!  after she passes I'm able to back out because the next person behind her wants my spot.  awesome!  guess what I caught up to genius who has also decided to attempt to park in the side lot.  ha ha ha!

get out of there and head to the big box hardware store to purchase husband a new CO detector.  Only when I get there and waddle over the ice thinking that I should have worn my snow boots, I realize that I need to head to the restroom...which in this store are for some brilliant reason between the cash registers and the exit.  ???  sigh  oh and all the registers have doors to make it harder for you to steal their stuff, so you have to locate the golden passage to get to the restroom.
I was able to locate the CO detectors on my way to the restroom, so I attempt to make my way back to be blocked by old dude who must only be here for the warmth slowly pushing a cart and totally unaware of her surroundings lady who blocks my way also.  (WHAT is with all these dazed and confused folks today???)  sigh, get to the detectors and realize that the one I thought that I wanted doesn't have the plug in feature, so I have to pay nearly $10 more for that.  Pththth  go to check out at the ONLY register open behind contractor dudes.  they open a second register, but I assumed that we were still one line that would split into two as registers became available...but NO some guy out of nowhere jumps into the spot behind the family at the newly opened register so I'm stuck waiting when his phone rings, he steps back for a second but blocks me from jumping into his stolen spot with his mirror.
leaving there after getting the detector, I see that the moon is still visible and I am surprised to see that it isn't a full moon.

make it to the grocery store that is crowded.  why on earth do these families bring the ENTIRE family with them to go grocery shopping???

And one wonders why I don't have any cares left to do anything when I get back home?

Must add that yesterday I decided to try to find one Christmas present item... 1st store I go to that says they carry the item... the employee who helps me agrees with me that their website sucks at keeping track of enventory.
Second store that I try, I can't find it, so I go looking for help and see that there are 3 employees.  One who is actually working and helping much so that I can't get his attention and 2 more who feel that it is more important to try to figure out why the one employee's printer isn't working.  I finally get their attention and guy with printer problems tells me that guy helping him will help me in a minute.  Finally I get "help" and he tells me that they don't stock those items in the store, so he has no idea what they have, if anything.  I gave up, and checked online again this morning...they say they have them and I can order one to be ready for me by 11:30am...  It is 4pm and I STILL don't have my item.

update:  checked the progress of my order on Tuesday...still processing.  So I use the online chat and ask quite nicely for an update on my order.  The online gal says that sometimes during the holidays it can take up to 48 hours.  I ask if she can answer/confirm my belief about what "Item available for same day pick up" means.  Does this mean the item is in the store (or near enough to be delivered to the store quickly).  She confirms that it means the item IS in the store.  No word from the store on Tuesday at all.

update #2:  I called the store, wait 15 min for the one poor person who has 5 other jobs to answer the phone for the site to store desk.  I ask for an update on my order.  She puts me on hold.  When she comes back she says that unfortunately my order hadn't yet been filled but that it would be soon and I would receive an email when it was ready, or they would call if there was a problem.  an hour later and still not filled.

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

WORST hours of our lives!

Yes, I am totally kidding here!

The previous deal that we had for our internet service had expired.  So I attempted to change it because the "regular" price was stupid high!

I go to my service provider's website and to change me service there required that I have an online account... I had one 5 years ago when we signed up, but I quickly cancelled it because I was tired of getting bombarded with emails wanting me to buy somemoah!  all the time.  :p

to get a new password and get into my account, required that I sit on the phone forevah to talk to one of the two people they have working there.  :PPPP  so at first I decided to try the online chat.  and that was taking forevah also.  apparently they only have half a person working that line.  sigh!

So I looked at their deals online and just signed up for a "new" account and told them to switch my phone number to the new account.  That prompted a call from them... "but you already have an account!"  yes, I know.  He took care of me...we'll see when I get the bill if he did it correctly.  I also upgraded our internet service.

So they set me up to switch over my internet on the 13th.  I was getting a new modem that should arrive on that day.

I get notified by UPS that my modem wont arrive until the 14th.  ???

The guy switches us over on the 13th...without the modem we have no internet.

So last night we all went to bed without any internet and this morning I spent several hours without.  :'(

but as you can see the modem came and we have internet.  YAY!  I want a discount for our inconvenience! 

Thursday, August 25, 2016

Organizing Costumes

My friend T started a costume rental company.  She also has been doing contract jobs for several theaters in the area doing their costumes.  She is the one who got me the job of doing costumes for the theater summer camp that I mentioned before.

When a theater group that we had done volunteer work for before (forced volunteer work really as for our kids to be in the show the parents had to put in hours) closed down, my friend purchased their costume stash.  To that end we had to move the costumes quickly because the lease on the storage space was ending.  When we picked up the costumes we stuffed our vehicles with as much as we could carry and dumped them into T's house.  (some went to B's & my houses as well)

Yesterday we went to T's house to attempt to organize the costumes and try to get her house looking more livable.  We started on her son's old bedroom (he has moved out) where the majority (? okay, maybe only half) of the costumes went.

First we had to move a bunch of costumes out of the bedroom so that we could get in.  We also needed to move garment racks into the room to put the costumes on.  {there was also some dog negotiations going on as T's dog was sure that we had come to see her and was mad at T for hogging HER guests!}  Once that was tackled we went to the task of looking at each item, determining what it was and then where it should go.

Determining where things should go became a work in progress as we would put things in a spot and then when more and more pieces of a show appeared have to move the group together. 

Surprisingly we were able to work our way through the piles and get everything looking much more organized.  There is even still room in the room for more...which is very good as to have garment racks for the room, T pulled costumes off the racks that were upstairs and brought the racks down.  We determined that we could fit at least two more racks in the room.  T is going to get her husband to install two garment bars in the room's closet for hanging short items.  So we can put shirts on the top bar and pants on the bottom bar.  That will free up more space on the 5 racks currently in the room.  We may also decide to put certain shows into bins.

After we left T moved some of the piles of costumes she pulled off the racks upstairs downstairs.

So we are going to need at least 1 if not 2 more organizing trips there.  I can probably organize the costumes that I have at my house by myself (although I can also enlist my daughter to help me.).  I don't know if B is going to want our help to organize what she has.  I do know that she insisted that we get everything organized so perhaps she has been working on her stash already.

Eventually we'll need to catalog the shows at least and/or the costumes so that they can all be rented.  We noticed while organizing that many items were missing and know that those were rented or loaned out by the former owner and not returned to them...several things were sold or gotten rid of also.  It will be frustrating recreating costumes that we have already made.  sigh

Sunday, August 07, 2016

Not my circus...explosion

well not a real explosion of course.

I saw this coming...a mile away.  I warned them.  I mean anyone could have seen this end would have happened if they continued on the path they were on.  But of course when you are on a path that leads to destruction it is hard to hear the warning signs...especially if they aren't what you want to hear.

Continuing to throw good money after bad, continuing to run your customers off because they don't agree with you...telling them to go and/or forcing them to go.  Eventually, you end up bankrupt.

and they did...

Apparently, they racked up a ton of debt in the process...and unfortunately the folks responsible will probably never have to face it as the bylaws make it the board's fault...they were supposed to be watching things.

I have heard that they didn't tell their employees until they were closing and oh by the way, we can't pay you for working all summer.  They also took payment for future camps that they couldn't afford to run.  So they asked another group to provide the camps for free...which the other group did and has now earned all those customers.

and there are rumors that they want to start another ...

UPDATE:  the rumors are true...they have started another.  I'm not exactly sure who "they" are though.  I'm also not sure if they plan to do anything about the previous debts.  One thing I do know...they don't have any costumes, sets or props...those were all sold or given away to pay off part of their debts.

the joys of having a job

After all these years of volunteering to make costumes for theater, my friend got me a job getting paid at it.  This summer I costumed 4 kids summer camps where they attend the camp every day for 3 weeks and put on a mini version of a show at then end of their camp.  Each camp for this age group is a half day with several kids taking two camps so they are there the entire day and doing two shows.

It has been interesting.

There was the frustration in locating costumes for shows that had been done over and over by this theater company and then making what I was unable to find.  Pictures would have been helpful!  as I learned the reason that I couldn't find one of the costumes is because I thought it looked like something else!

I didn't initially apply for this job because of the distance to the theater and because the next two days of my life for the final show.  See Kiddo is in a show also (I'm not costuming that show!) and this is her show week as well.  So Friday I will miss her show for the one I am working.  :(

The camps were held at two locations, each doing two shows.  Show 1 at location A and then show 2 at location B...then show 1 at location B and finally this week show 2 at location A.  Location A is an hour from my home and is also where they store the costumes for the shows.  (another reason I didn't jump at taking the job)... however, after doing the job I got over the distance as for most days most of my time was the driving to and from... the job itself isn't difficult and is right in my skill set.  So thanks to my old volunteer job for giving me the skills to do something that I can get paid for.

Last week my friend who got me this job asked if I could help her with another job she is working on.  The show she is doing is renting costumes from another theater and she was told that she would need several cars to transport the costumes.  The costumes were an hour away.  ugh!  Unfortunately, the only day that she could get the costumes was yesterday...which is also my daughter's voice lesson day and trying to change her lesson is now impossible.  double ugh!

Our plan of attack was that we would get there at 11am.  Load up my car and I would head back home so that I could get kiddo to her voice lesson at 1pm.  We would work out getting the costumes from my car to my friend's house later.

SCREECHING HALT!  when we arrived at the rental theater about 10 min early, the gal is no where to be found!  When she finally does show up at 11...she informs us that the costumes aren't actually at that location.  WHAT?  So we caravan to the storage facility which is about a mile down the road.

Luckily, the costumes were all in labeled bins and easy to load up.  Unfortunately, while the costumes needed several of this person's sized cars to transport... they could have all fit in my car (yeah, I drive a big gas guzzler that has a lot of cargo room!) and we didn't need 3 cars to get them back.

We loaded my car with 4 of the 7 bins and I zip out of there by 11:15.  Praise God that traffic was not backed up and it only took me an hour to get home with plenty of time to get kiddo to her voice lesson.

After voice we had to get Kiddo ready for her dress rehearsal.  She is in Thoroughly Modern Millie... which requires her to have her hair bobbed short... her hair length is to the middle of her back.  so we have learned how to do a faux bob.  It looks really good and she totally looks like she's from the 1920's.

Get kiddo to dress rehearsal at 5.  Meet with friend to inventory the costumes I brought back and transfer them to her car.  At 6:30 go to rehearsal for her show (the one we got the costumes for) so we can measure the cast.  Have a lot of awkward moments with the cast...I had them all hold the tape for their inseam and diverted my gaze to the floor to get the measurement.  Most all of the men had been measured for a suit before and totally understood how to get this measurement.  whew!  although, most of the costumes for this show don't really require pants...soooo

Get finished with that show at 9, rush to my house to pick up two costumes for a different show (btw: I'm currently storing a bunch of costumes in my basement) and then run back to pick up Kiddo...who was finished early.  oops...IDK why my phone didn't ring...perhaps that was when I was in the basement and the phone was upstairs.

Of course instead of getting a good night's sleep, I'm up early this morning.  :p  I told hubby that I was practicing for tomorrow where I'll have to be in traffic at this early hour.

Back on Monday Kiddo was doing her laundry and hubby asked if I could wash something he needed.  I told him I was doing our laundry on Wednesday.  This morning, I'm up and ask for the item...he is wearing it!  After he changes out he asks if I am using the new batch of laundry soap.  and then says to not bother to wash his item with the new soap as he doesn't like the smell of it.  I figured out how to wash his clothes without using my soap (I used dish soap, borax & washing soda instead)...but I have to figure out how to alter the scent of my batch of detergent that I made so that my family doesn't turn their nose up at it.

Thursday & Friday I needed to be up at location A for the dress rehearsals at 8:30 in the morning.  In normal traffic, you can get there from my house in about 1 hour 5 min.  However, in rush hour it is another story.  If I leave my house at 6:10am I can be there by 7:15.  If I leave my house at 6:30, I might not make it by 8:30!!!  :o   so to be sure that I was there on time I left each morning at 6:10 and just hung out at a local coffee shop, using their free wifi for an hour before heading just down the street to work.

However, on Friday I needed to be there from 8:30 to "12:30" (I actually ended up being able to leave at 10:20) and then return by 5pm for the 6pm show.  I didn't really want to drive all the way home and then go back up there.  So I decided to go get my hair color done by a girl from our church who is attending beauty school...she's almost ready to graduate.  I arrived at the beauty school way too early for my 2pm appointment though and went across the street and got my nails done also.
Unfortunately, getting my hair done took a bit longer than we anticipated and with traffic I was a tiny bit late in returning to the theater.

Not a big deal...the cast and everyone were able to start getting the kids into their costumes without me and were mostly done by the time I arrived...they started a bit early.  Got the kids all in costumes and ready to go.

After the show, I loaded up and headed for home.  Since Kiddo's show would be done in about 30 min, I decided to go hang out at her theater instead of going straight home (even though my house is just 5 min down the road).  Chatted with the mom of one of the cast mates and saw a few friends after the show.

Now that my summer camp job is over, we'll start on the next show.  I get to sew a pink bunny costume and we'll see what else I have to do.  :D

Kiddo is going to audition for 2 more shows coming up...that I may help costume as well.  My friend has the contract for them and I might be asked to assist her.  It will be nice to not have to drive all the way to location A for a good long while.  :D

Monday, August 01, 2016


  yay the TV finally left the building on Saturday.

So after trying to get the one tv recycler to give us his address ...

the guy posts all over craigslist that he recycles tv sets.  I contact him and he says he can't get it cuz his truck broke.  I ask can I bring it to you?  He says yes, but won't tell me the address, just the town.  :p  This goes on for about a week when I get hubby involved.  He gives hubby the run around also and increases the price.
I get the feeling that this bozo is really just looking to case people's homes so he can come back and rob them.  :-/

Anyway, hubby finally got the guy to say this Saturday between 8 and 9 am.  Hubby asks AGAIN for the address.  nothing

oh hubby got the TV in my car somehow... I don't know how, but he was injured afterward.  I didn't ask.

Hubby had heard that the local news station was sponsoring an electronics recycling event at the major base ball field parking lot.  so he said if we didn't hear from the other guy by 8am he was taking it there...and we never heard from him. 

So for the same amount of money we now have no tv.  YAY!

and now hubby wants to spend all the money I've made working this summer to buy our new tv set... that we are now weaned from and don't need.

Thursday, July 28, 2016

Make it or buy it?

As a seamstress & costume designer one would think that I make everything in my wardrobe... and you would be WRONG!  One would wonder why I don't just sew everything that I need...  well the simple answer is...
cheap foreign labor

When I get an email from a store that they have dresses on sale for only $30...there just isn't any way on earth that I can sew my own dress for that little.  Even finding nice quality fabrics on sale for $10 per yard (and that's dreaming is more like almost $20 per yard usually) I would just scrape by at that price range, but you're not including any thread, zippers, lining, and the cost of the pattern. 

So when I get that email, I look and see what all I can find.

Today I got such a notice and found 4 dresses for myself.  I put them in my cart and went through the check out process and thought that I had completed my order, but after waiting 20 min for my confirmation email I scrolled down and found the hidden submit order button.  :-/   k folks I don't need a page full of pictures of things I didn't order on my order form...I NEED the submit order button.  :p

I wonder how long until I get my dresses?

Wednesday, July 27, 2016

TV saga continues

Daughter and I had gone to a rehearsal.  Upon returning we see that the dead tv set is in the garage...on the floor of the garage.  Just where I told husband to NOT put the tv set!!!  I told him to not put the tv on the floor of the garage because I knew that we would NEVER get it back up off the floor again.  but alas, I don't know anything.  sigh!

Apparently, he must have seen the neighbors outside and invited them in to help him move the set.  he paid them a 12 pack of Pepsi to do it.  I hope they didn't choke on the dust too much.  This thing sat in a hole in the wall (literally!) for the past...I don't even remember how many years we had the thing.

Well great, now the tv is out of my house.  And now we get to figure out how to get the tv set up off the floor of my garage and into the back of my car which wasn't at home when he had the neighbors help move it, so that's why it's on the floor.

Remember this is the heavy tv set that I dropped several years back trying to get it into the house.  And now hubby thinks that we can rig something up that will help us lift this thing the 3 feet we need to get it into the car...supposedly once we get it to the mysterious tv guy, he'll be able to get it out of my car.  (yeah right!)

So all weekend hubby was trying to think of how to get some sort of ramp situated that we could use along with my car's tire jack to lift this thing off the floor.  ???

In the mean time we don't have any replacement tv set...which is not really a problem.  I think that by the time we finally get a replacement we will be totally weaned from even needing one.

and perhaps we'll get used to having a dead tv set in the garage also?